confidence, i dont think its enough

[danziv]

.i hear often people say that pure confidence is enough to get high rate of success, but this thing doesnt work for me

when i am going in to a set and i do feel and act confident(body language and shit), the girls usualy seem to enjoy themselves, they often help get the conversation moving and shit. but many times all of this dies out on me pretty fast for an unknown reason and the sets just becomes cold and closes shut and when i try to reangage i get rejected.

I really dont understand what am I doing wrong. my friend looking at me sayed to me that i was to agressive: i talked to perverty or shit and the girls are "goody goody girls" who never had sex in thier life, but i really dont think that was the case.

i think theres some qualitys in me that are still missing. I am playfull, calm and confident but something is missing, I cant get the girls to be interested in me sexually, cant seem to get the whole seduction stage thing going. i geuss what i am trying to say is that sheer confidence is not enough to get a girl in bed with you, confidence only gets me to open sets with ease and engage in a conversation but the things i lack get the conversation become boring fast or gets me to creep the girls out for some reason. what i need to understand is WTF is missing what other quallities do i need to get. maybe im not interesting enough or maybe i lack the abillity to talk interestingly. I realy dont know I would be happy if any of the more experienced guys can tell me what other qualities im still missing or maybe what is still lacking is sheer experience?

[anibeatrafhh]

מה הקטע של האנגלית? אתה באתר ישראלי לא אנגלי

[WizeEde]

if ur friends said that u were agressive, maybe you should try and be less energetic and more relaxed, show them that it doesnt matter to you too much either if you get to know them or not. SHOW HIGHER SOCIAL VALUE THAN YOUR TARGET. control the set, lead the conversation, show them with your body language that you might leave at any moment. everything that im saying here is based on Mystery's book, read it.
by the way, out of curiosity, can you speak hebrew?

[StreetLight]

maybe... just maybe
you should act more and talk less.... move the situation to a sexuall end


בכל מקרה תפעל יותר תחשוב פחות... תנה לקדם את האינטרקציה למקום מיני, תבודד את הבחורה ותנסה לקדם מיניות, לדבר לא רק בבטחון עצי ובכריזמה אלא גם בוויב מיני מסויים, ותקדם ענינים, אל תחשוב שהבחורה תקדם משהו, לפעמים היא מקדמת אבל אם לא תעשה שום צעד אז אחוזי ההצלחה שלך יהיו נמוכים

[shmexy]

i dont really understand why did you write it down here, but i agree with ya' i think you need way more then just confidence

[danziv]

ty wizeede, still i have some questions how do i show higher social value without using DHV inbeded routines ? i just cant use those, I feel to fake and its imposible for me to use.about controlling the conversation and everything i think i do have it under controll i dont let it go to places im not interested in. i dont think im to energetic and im fairly relaxed i talk with women for fun. Btw, for some reason I sometimes dont feel aproach anxiety at all maybe its because i follow the 3Sec rule.i dont realy know how to show a set u are going to leave it in any second if u could help me with that i would be more than happy. i do know hebrew but i dont have it on my computer and im to lazy to install it plus i dont realy know how, my windows language is russian which im very weak at and i cant seem to understand how to add languages..
streetLight ty u for the help aswell, I think u are wright, i dont get the conversation sexuall enough' but what im talking about is a problem that happenes before i even get to isolate the target so i dont know how to get the situation more sexuall what happenes is they suddenly lose interest and i get ejected. when i do get to isolate the girl i often do get the mood more sexuall and stuff but not as agrresive as i want it to be not fast enough, and i only isolate rarely im talking maximum 2% of my sets i get to isolate the girl and even than i get ressistence and can sometimes be ejected again by sudden lose of interest... its like they suddenly see me as a loser who wastes their time even though in the beginning they saw me as an alpha, openned up and were interested in me it is just plain wierd. it happenes so often i had to ask for some help.

[fsa446]

it's israel here, we talk hebrew...

[inverter]

בטחון עצמי לא מספיק, צריך גם לדעת להיות מיני.